Your friend is probably trying her best to balance both of you, it’s really difficult at the beginning of a relationship to find a balance. Over time, she’ll adjust and find a way to give you both equal time, so you just need to be patient and help her out a bit. Maybe ask your friend if you two can have lunch together, just the two of you, at least once a week. It’ll take time but it’ll all work out over time
- Aorthi xx
By leaving us you are not doing us a favor. You are making it worse, but listen to me. Those people who said all that negative stuff to you are either jealous of you or are insecure about themselves. You are probably a wonderful person but cannot see it because your brain is filled with what they said. Let those thoughts go, clear your mind and sit back and relax. Once you do that please realize how great of a person you are because honestly I have never met anyone who I didn’t think was great. We are all great in our own ways and the same goes for you. Read a book, go to bed, yell in a pillow just distract yourself. If these thoughts continue please see a professional, but if you don’t want to you can always come to us. Please think about what I wrote.
I am right now for a little bit but someone else will be on shortly.
Awww I’m so sorry to hear about that hun :( The best thing to do is just cry, let it all out and cry. Listen to Teardrops On My Guitar by Taylor Swift and any other song that relates to your situation and sing along. Watch your favourite comedy movies. Allow yourself to feel sad and let it out.
Everything happens for a reason and if you were meant to end up with this guy, it would happen. It’s the most heartbreaking thing when this happens and it sucks because you can’t really do anything about it. But remember that this pain you feel isn’t forever. It certainly hurts and it will certainly hurt for a while, and you need to allow yourself to deal with it and get it out. But the sun will come up and things will work out, you just have to keep believing.
- Aorthi xx
I can’t imagine how terrifying it must be for you, really. Of course you’re scared, I honestly would have no idea how to react if I was in your position! Your friends were obviously upset when they found out, because they care about you and it was a shock, but it took a lot for you to tell them and I’m proud of you for that.
Please, I know it’s scary, but there is still that chance that it’s nothing and it would take a lot of stress off of you. And if it is, then you need to do your best to beat it and you need the help of your doctor for that. And the sooner you’re diagnosed, the better your chances. Open the box, it’s scary, but you need to know if that cat is alive or dead because you can’t go on not knowing.
- Aorthi xx
I understand what you’re dealing with hun and I am sorry you have to deal with stupid people. They don’t realize how amazing you are and they are too focused on what they see on the outside, which isn’t important!
I know it’s hard to push through all the comments and stares but just remember that you are better than them, stronger than them and you can make it through this. The people making fun of you or saying comments about your appearance have nothing better to do with their lives but bring someone else down. And that’s because they’re insecure about themselves, even if they don’t show it.
You ARE strong. You ARE brave. You CAN make it through this because I am here for you and I believe in you!! If you ever need anything, I am here for you no matter what!
I know that right now, in our society, outside beauty is deemed more important than inside beauty. But would you want to eat an apple that’s beautiful and red on the outside but rotten to the core on the inside? I sure as hell wouldn’t!
I know exactly where you are coming from. I am not a size 2 or what you would consider “beautiful” at first glance. But my boyfriend loves me for me. Not what I look like but what I say and do, how I make him feel and yes, he did find me pretty but even he admitted before we started dating that my body type wasn’t what he usually went for.
You just have to wait for that person (guy or girl) who will look past you so called “flaws” and see the real you. Someone who will love everything you hate about yourself! I know it’s hard but that person is out there, I promise you that. If people aren’t willing to give you a chance because you don’t fit the stereotypical version of beautiful then screw them! They aren’t worth your time!
Remember, those who mind don’t matter and those who matter don’t mind!
If you are being abused at home, by a parent, sibling or ANYONE, then you need to tell someone and they need to get you to a safe place or remove the person who is harming you. It is NEVER okay for someone to hit you, even if it was your brother.
I know it might be hard but please tell someone at your school or another trusted adult who can help you with this situation. Abuse is never acceptable nor should it be overlooked. Physical altercations between siblings is always looked at as just sibling rivalry but when it goes to the extreme it’s something that needs to be taken seriously.
Please tell someone about this because I don’t want anything to happen to you and it sounds like you are in an unsafe environment right now and you need to get out.
Anything? Have you talked to someone about this other than your mom? Someone who might understand you and has been through that. You don’t feel pain or happiness or sorrow? Do you know what caused it?
Don’t let them bring you down. Wigs are fashionable! I use them for cosplay and honestly I love my wigs and wish my hair was just like it. You are beautiful and if a wig is something you need to wear then it’s okay and wear it well because wigs are great and you are great and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise.